Time to Breakaway!
In today’s tech-driven world, do you find spending more time with smartphones easier than engaging with others at events? Have you ever noticed people at events standing off to the side, fully absorbed in their phones instead of interacting with those around them?
Sometimes, these individuals even gather in small groups, texting each other as if they are in a private circle, ignoring everyone else. Does this sound familiar? Or maybe it describes your behavior?
The Smartphone Escape
Smartphones and other handheld devices offer a convenient escape from face-to-face interactions. It’s common to see someone hesitate to approach another person because they don’t want to interrupt their texting. But isn’t the whole point of attending events to meet people and network? It’s a paradox we often overlook.
Etiquette of Networking: Set Boundaries!
While it’s understandable that we rely on our smartphones for essential messages, setting boundaries during events is crucial. Consider turning your phone off or putting it on silent mode. If you are distracted by the urge to check your messages, excuse yourself from the event or group and handle your messages privately and briefly.
Key Considerations
- Encountering a Texter: How do you feel when you approach someone at an event only to find them engrossed in their cell phone or tablet?
- Deciding to Interrupt: Should you interrupt or ignore their texting?
- Inviting Interaction: If you’re texting, how do you signal that you’re open to interaction when someone approaches?
Setting a Better Example
If you’re in the middle of a text and notice someone approaching, the polite thing to do is to make eye contact and use a “just a moment” gesture to indicate that you’re wrapping up your text and will engage with them shortly. Remember, you’re constantly being observed. Others will take note of your priorities and appreciate that your focus is on them, not your phone. Lead by example!
Focus on Your Surroundings
Effective networking requires presence and attentiveness. Setting your smartphone aside and focusing on the people around you creates opportunities for meaningful connections that a text message can’t replace.
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